Master Pick Up Artist Reveals The Truth About Were To Take A Woman For A Date
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Steve
By Steve
Published on 08/23/2007
Dinner dates are for brain dead losers with no creative fibers in their beings.
This is true at least for the first handful of dates. Let me ask you a question... Do you want to “date” a woman or do you want to be romantically (and sexually) involved with a woman?
If you want to interact with a woman on a romantic level you can do so without footing the bill for a dinner date.
Let's look at from another angle. Think of a friend you have who has been romantically involved with someone for longer than a year. What do him and his partner do? Do they go out on “dates”? I bet they spend a lot of time at home... or shopping... or whatever they did before they knew each other.
If you want to make a woman feel attraction toward you, you don't need to take her out on a stereotypical date at all. In fact, based on mine and my students experiences, these type of dates actually get in the way of creating attraction.
There are two categories men fall into. One of them is called provider. Giving her things, buying her drinks and, you guessed it, taking her out to dinner makes you a provider.
The other category is lover. A lover is someone who truly understands what causes attraction in a woman... and knows what sort of things make her feel that attraction toward him. That's all he is concerned about. He leaves the “dating rules” for the losers.
Listen: If a women feels attracted to you... I mean powerfully, emotionally attracted to you... just being around you is good enough for her. “Come to daddy” is all she needs to hear. Not, “let me buy you dinner.”
The ultimate point is that attraction is something that happens rather quickly. If you know how to trip her attraction sensors it can happen in as little as three minutes... even less. Once you know how to do this you won't need to take her on a lot of fancy dates or anything.
So what should you take from this? First decide if you want to be a provider or a lover. If you want to be a lover then you must understand the different set of rules a lover plays by. Figure out exactly how he acts to create attraction in a woman.
Once you can do that, she won't care what you guys do together, just as long as you do it together.
This is true at least for the first handful of dates. Let me ask you a question... Do you want to “date” a woman or do you want to be romantically (and sexually) involved with a woman?
If you want to interact with a woman on a romantic level you can do so without footing the bill for a dinner date.
Let's look at from another angle. Think of a friend you have who has been romantically involved with someone for longer than a year. What do him and his partner do? Do they go out on “dates”? I bet they spend a lot of time at home... or shopping... or whatever they did before they knew each other.
If you want to make a woman feel attraction toward you, you don't need to take her out on a stereotypical date at all. In fact, based on mine and my students experiences, these type of dates actually get in the way of creating attraction.
There are two categories men fall into. One of them is called provider. Giving her things, buying her drinks and, you guessed it, taking her out to dinner makes you a provider.
The other category is lover. A lover is someone who truly understands what causes attraction in a woman... and knows what sort of things make her feel that attraction toward him. That's all he is concerned about. He leaves the “dating rules” for the losers.
Listen: If a women feels attracted to you... I mean powerfully, emotionally attracted to you... just being around you is good enough for her. “Come to daddy” is all she needs to hear. Not, “let me buy you dinner.”
The ultimate point is that attraction is something that happens rather quickly. If you know how to trip her attraction sensors it can happen in as little as three minutes... even less. Once you know how to do this you won't need to take her on a lot of fancy dates or anything.
So what should you take from this? First decide if you want to be a provider or a lover. If you want to be a lover then you must understand the different set of rules a lover plays by. Figure out exactly how he acts to create attraction in a woman.
Once you can do that, she won't care what you guys do together, just as long as you do it together.
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